Do I need help with grief?
The long-debated question many of us have is, “Do I need help with grief?” This is a legitimate question. We all experience grief at one time or another throughout our lives. My personal and professional opinion is that we could all use a helping hand with managing our grief. Grief can be tough for anyone…
How Unconscious Goals Create Self-Sabotage and What to do About It
These are notes on an iNLP Center student webinar about NLP and unconscious goals. Clients come in with goals. Some of these goals are conscious and some are unconscious. The unconscious goals are more important. Why? The unconscious mind: Has more influence over our thoughts and behavior than the conscious mind. Often sees the world…
iNLP Center’s Quad Map Exercised Applied to a Client
In the iNLP Center NLP Master Practitioner training, students submit reports on their coaching sessions with volunteer clients. This is all part of the process of becoming a practitioner or a life coach. What follows is an example of one such report. iNLP Center Quad Map Applied I used my learnings of the Quad map…
Defining NLP: What is Neuro-Linguistic Programming?
There has never been an official definition of Neuro-Linguistic Programing (although the iNLP Center article on NLP is pretty good) and now that NLP has been in the public domain for over 20 years, there never will be. Here are some NLP definitions that have come and gone over the years: NLP is the study…
Typical Problems with Decision Strategies – iNLP Center Student Question
iNLP Center student asks questions about decision-making strategies in NLP An iNLP student emailed a question to get clarification on NLP decision strategies as depicted in module five on the NLP practitioner training. Good Morning, I’m in Module 5 of the nlp practicioner course and learning about decision strategies. I’m reading the below part in…
iNLP Center Coaching: NLP Pervasive Elements Exercise Notes
These are the pervasive elements audio exercises from the iNLP Center practitioner training in Neuro-Linguistic Programming. Students who are prepping to come to NLP class may review these notes as an added study aid. Neuro-Linguistic Programming Training Aid – Audio Files 1-6 from NLP Practitioner Training Audio 1: “I’m always so hard on myself –…
Facts about NLP V-K Dissociation
V-K Dissociation in Neuro-Linguistic Programming Note: this post served as a prompt for an iNLP Center student webinar on that took place on April 13, 2017. Visual-Kinesthetic Dissociation is one of the core concepts that set NLP apart. And it’s one of the few concepts in the field that can be scientifically tested with some…
How to Stop Trying to Control People
iNLP Center Class Notes
How to Stop Trying to Control People These are notes on the iNLP Center relationship detangler webinar for people searching for how to let go of control in relationships. Being controlling in relationships takes many forms. The bottom line is: your emotions are so wrapped up in the other’s emotions that you feel you must…
How to Prime the Pump and Inspire Great Questions from NLP Students
Trainer Notes: Priming the Pump to Inspire Good Questions from NLP Students For the Coaching with VAK and Rapport webinar, one of the goals is to “prime the pump” to get students to ask questions. Merely asking, “Are there any questions?” might not stimulate enough association with the content to inspire question. So… The NLP…
iNLP Center Training Notes: VAK Coaching
NLP Coaching with the VAK Model NLP training notes for VAK and rapport workshop at iNLP Center. This is an iNLP enrollee course to review the VAK model and NLP rapport building techniques. Workshop Name Coaching with VAK and Rapport Who Will Attend iNLP Center students enrolled in any iNLP Center NLP or coach training.…